Finally - I found the perfect pillow for me. This pillow seems to check all my boxes, satisfying everything I want in a pillow. It is really soft and gentle on my tender head. It is also supportive and has a consistent feel. It has the perfect resistance and never goes flat. It is SO soft and cushy without being too soft. I am a combination sleeper - spending most my time on my side, occasionally rolling to back, and sometimes even flip to my stomach. This pillow is great for everything, but I don’t find myself flipping to my stomach at all - which is a good thing for my spine! I have not been tossing or turning or waking up to adjust.
I actually ordered the “extra soft” first, and while I loved sinking in and feeling engulfed by the plushness for a second, it was ultimately way too soft on my neck. The “soft” version is much more supportive, yet still cradles my head and allows me to sink in a bit. I’d say it suspends my head at the perfect height so I don’t hurt my neck or shoulders. It is breathable, great quality, and excellent value for the money. I dreamed of a day I would wake up pain-free, and now I experience that every morning. 👍 100% the perfect pillow for me!!