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How to Own the Room: Women and the Art of Brilliant Speaking Hardcover – 1 Nov. 2018
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A powerful book about what happens when women find their voice.
INCLUDES A NEW INTRODUCTION AND BONUS CHAPTER ON 'HOW TO OWN THE ZOOM'
'The ultimate guide to public speaking. Inspirational.' Mary Portas
'I recommend Viv Groskop's How to Own the Room to anyone wanting more self-confidence.' Philippa Perry
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Most books about public speaking don't tell you what to do when you open your mouth and nothing comes out. And they don't tell you how to get over the anxiety about performance that most people naturally have. They don't tell you what to do in the moments when you are made, as a woman, to feel small. They don't tell you how to own the room. This book does.
From the way Michelle Obama projects 'happy high status', to Virginia Woolf's leisurely pacing and Oprah Winfrey's mastery of inner conviction, what is it that our heroines do to make us sit up and listen - really listen - to their every word? And how can you achieve that impact in your own life? Here's how.
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***** 'Easy to grasp practical tips... all served up with lightness and generosity.'
***** 'It has made me realize I don't even need to be good, but I can be brave.'
***** 'Brilliant, engaging, honest, vulnerable, often damn funny.'
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBantam Press
- Publication date1 Nov. 2018
- Dimensions12.8 x 3 x 19.8 cm
- ISBN-101787631125
- ISBN-13978-1787631120

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Plenty of tips and tricks... The most valuable lesson is that, in Groskop's words, 'You don't have to be a great speaker to give an amazing speech.' ― Sunday Times Style magazine
The ultimate guide to public speaking. Inspirational. ― Mary Portas
Demystifies the art of talking to people and winning them round to your cause. ― The Times
One of my fave life gurus on taking up space and owning your voice. Viv is the perfect teacher. This book is going to help so many people. It's brilliant.' ― Emma Gannon, author The Multi-Hyphen Method
An excellent, truly useful guide to getting more women front and centre, encouraging us to take part, noisily, in public life. (The podcast is also fabulous.)' ― Daisy Buchanan, author of How to Be a Grown-Up
The indispensable guide for anyone keen to develop their public presence, written with style and wit. ― Mishal Husain
Powerful advice ... useful thoughts and words of wisdom. Groskop gives you all the tools you need. ― TES
Easy steps to soothe the nerves and build conifidence. ― Nina Stibbe
Must-read guide. ― Red
Speaking advice drawn from female experience ("Be More Oprah, "Be More Michelle", Be More JK", Be More Chimamanda" and so on) and with a tilt to a female audience. ― The Guardian
Funny, practical and inspiring. ― Caroline Goyder
Super helpful. ― Lorraine Candy
If you wish you were a bit more confident when it comes to standing up in front of lots of people, then Viv Groskop has written a genuinely excellent guide to public speaking. It’s got a whole chapter on what we can learn from Oprah. How can you NOT need that in your life? ― Ellie Taylor
I immediately wanted to give this book to all my female friends. ― Kirsty Logan, author of The Gracekeepers
Addresses how to overcome the natural performance anxiety many people suffer and how as a woman you can find your voice on a big stage. Championing female speakers from Michelle Obama to JK Rowling, to Hillary Clinton and Oprah, this book aims to help women tap into the kind of inner conviction that makes people sit up and take notice. ― Marketing Week
Funny, supportive and reassuring. Just reading it is making me stand taller. ― Tracy Chevalier, author of Girl with a Pearl Earring and TED speaker
About the Author
Viv Groskop is an award-winning writer, stand-up comedian, playwright and TV and radio presenter. She is the host of the podcast How Own the Room, with over 2 million downloads and guests including Hillary and Chelsea Clinton, Margaret Atwood, Professor Mary Beard, Nigella Lawson and very occasionally a man like Brian Cox (Succession's Logan Roy).
Her previous books include How to Own the Room: Women and the Art of Brilliant Speaking and Lift As You Climb: Women, Ambition and How to Change the Story. As a performance coach, she works with women and senior teams in business and media, helping them to redefine leadership and authority - and generally worry less about how they come across so they can actually just do their work.
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- Publisher : Bantam Press (1 Nov. 2018)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1787631125
- ISBN-13 : 978-1787631120
- Dimensions : 12.8 x 3 x 19.8 cm
- Best Sellers Rank: 13,540 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Customers find the book provides practical advice and guidance on public speaking. They find the writing style clear and informative, analyzing different types of speaking styles. The book is described as a brilliant, entertaining read with humor and anecdotes. It's relevant for women and contextualizes the female experience of "owning the room". The author introduces many different styles without being prescriptive.
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Customers find the book provides guidance and practical advice. They appreciate the tips, tricks, and examples from powerful female speakers. The book is informative, inspiring, and easy to follow. Readers mention it's accessible, with a breadth of experience and entertaining anecdotes.
"...The appendix is the icing on the cake: do’s and don’ts, further reading and personally chosen resources to help you dive deeper into the things that..." Read more
"...However, despite these moments, the book is still inspirational and is still very supportive and encouraging...." Read more
"...The exercises and tips at the end of each chapter are a great way to get you practicing, thus making the book very 'hands on' as opposed to just..." Read more
"...It is empowering and give amazing information, advice and real life stories on how to build up your confidence and to be able to give amazing..." Read more
Customers find the book helpful and informative for women who want to improve their public speaking. It provides an easy-to-read guide with practical tips and tricks. They say it helps them feel more confident when speaking up, explores why female speakers throughout history are relevant to our lives, and includes personal stories.
"...(using a similar format: interviewing super interesting, awesome women who all own the room in very different ways - Nigella Lawson, Sam Baker..." Read more
"...section of the book takes a different female speaker and analyses their style of speaking and why it is effective both for them and generally for..." Read more
"The book was absolutely fantastic, I loved the way it was written; the writer is extremely approachable, funny and down to earth...." Read more
"...Additionally, it is the stories of well known people and how they deal with making speeches that makes you feel a little bit better about your own..." Read more
Customers find the book easy to read and entertaining. They appreciate the practical exercises and suggestions for further reading. The book is pragmatic and helpful, providing insights into how to use one's voice more effectively.
"...The appendix is the icing on the cake: do’s and don’ts, further reading and personally chosen resources to help you dive deeper into the things that..." Read more
"The book was absolutely fantastic, I loved the way it was written; the writer is extremely approachable, funny and down to earth...." Read more
"...Viv Groskop’s brilliant book How to Own the Room is a powerhouse of a book...." Read more
"...It's a fantastic book, funny, informative and inspiring - Viv uses a broad range of speakers and analyses their speaking style/content/delivery in a..." Read more
Customers find the book humorous and engaging. They appreciate the witty writing style with anecdotes and accessible advice. The book helps them deliver stand-up comedy and rethink their nerves.
"...of her natural ability to interrogate, analyse and understand human behaviour with humour and humility; instinctively spotting patterns and joining..." Read more
"...I loved the way it was written; the writer is extremely approachable, funny and down to earth...." Read more
"...It's a fantastic book, funny, informative and inspiring - Viv uses a broad range of speakers and analyses their speaking style/content/delivery in a..." Read more
"...Her own style is conversational, light hearted and funny, but she introduces so many different styles and is not prescriptive..." Read more
Customers find the book relevant for women. They appreciate its contextualization of the female experience of "owning the room", practical advice, and inspiration. The book recognizes that women are individuals and not a homogenous group. It is encouraging for women to speak out and avoids overt feminist rhetoric.
"...The Room is a perfect example of her natural ability to interrogate, analyse and understand human behaviour with humour and humility; instinctively..." Read more
"...in front of others in a positive light and is extremely encouraging towards women speaking out no matter how big or small the situation is...." Read more
"...and funny, but she introduces so many different styles and is not prescriptive (as so many public speaking books are) about how one *should*..." Read more
"...get up there in the first place, tell your truth and deliver from the heart without a script. Can't wait to try my next owning the room speech...." Read more
Customers find the book's style engaging and humorous. They appreciate the author's nuanced, profound advice on public speaking. The book provides clear, realistic advice with helpful resources like further reading suggestions and personal recommendations.
"...the icing on the cake: do’s and don’ts, further reading and personally chosen resources to help you dive deeper into the things that have stuck..." Read more
"...is conversational, light hearted and funny, but she introduces so many different styles and is not prescriptive..." Read more
"...but also really smart, nuanced and profound...." Read more
"...out is the way she focuses on famous female speakers; breaking down their different styles and making sense of what it is to be an effective speaker...." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 18 November 2018Anyone familiar with Viv’s exquisite writing for The Pool (if not, get on that now because ALL the writing for The Pool is phenomenal) will know how acutely perceptive she is; how insightfully she unpacks popular culture and how intuitively she explores societal narrative. How To Own The Room is a perfect example of her natural ability to interrogate, analyse and understand human behaviour with humour and humility; instinctively spotting patterns and joining the dots, presenting a perspective and making observations that have relevance to and application in your own personal context.
Taking inspiration from some of the most powerful and relatable female orators out there, her examination of wildly diverse character types reflects a genuine acknowledgement that - as with most tips and techniques - one size simply just doesn’t fit all. Nor does it need to: the women she’s chosen are (or were) not public speakers by profession, but whose work requires them to hold their voice in some respect, and met with their own personal challenges, their own unique circumstances, they subsequently do so - they need to do so - in very, very different ways.
Tying up each chapter with a reflection, recap, personal observation and set of tangible action points that give you the tools to apply the approach used by her subject, she provides tips, case studies and guideline examples of use in practice that allow you to adopt, adapt, and implement it in a way that works for you.
And as it’s Viv, it’s a brilliant, engaging, honest, vulnerable, often damn funny read.
The appendix is the icing on the cake: do’s and don’ts, further reading and personally chosen resources to help you dive deeper into the things that have stuck (and if you - like me - have been going on about wanting to do a TED talk for forever but spent just as long making up excuses to justify why you can’t, this is the kick up the ass you need)...because if you want to speak, you need to create an opportunity to make it happen. Then go OWN THE DAMN ROOM. And once you've read the book, you'll not just be able to, you'll actually WANT TO.
Oh, and did I mention she’s just released a weekly podcast series (using a similar format: interviewing super interesting, awesome women who all own the room in very different ways - Nigella Lawson, Sam Baker, Yana Peel, Mary Portas... - and offering her personal reflections, observations and insights then tips and tricks to help you apply the techniques discussed and explored) to support the book? Viv, you're a legend.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 11 March 2019This is a really impressive and original book. Each section of the book takes a different female speaker and analyses their style of speaking and why it is effective both for them and generally for others. As someone who finds public speaking a terrifying thought, this book contains so many useful tips. It casts the idea of speaking in front of others in a positive light and is extremely encouraging towards women speaking out no matter how big or small the situation is. The range of speakers discussed also means that you can definitely take something from the book to apply to yourself, no matter what type of personality or what type of speaker you are.
Disappointingly, there are a few moments in the book where I felt the tone comes across a little patronising. For example - Groskop describes how JK Rowling was giving a speech whilst holding the microphone and her clutch bag - she ends the chapter by saying "Give someone the clutch bag to hold, love, next time, OK?". Yes, she does have a valid point but the tone comes across a little condescending to me and is in stark contrast to the otherwise general tone of encouragement throughout the book. There were a couple of other comments like this which, for me, took away from the heights of empowerment that the book could have otherwise achieved. However, despite these moments, the book is still inspirational and is still very supportive and encouraging. These moments do not pervade the book; they are really just a 'few moments' and others may interpret the comments differently - Groskop is just being honest at the end of the day. Furthermore, my interpretation probably says more about my lack of confidence than it does about Groskop's writing; she sets out to inspire and encourage which in my opinion she does overwhelmingly achieve despite these minor comments. Nonetheless, they are what held me back from giving the book 5 stars.
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 1 February 2022The book was absolutely fantastic, I loved the way it was written; the writer is extremely approachable, funny and down to earth.
When reading the book, I found myself relating to everything she was saying and I loved the words of encouragement and support throughout. The exercises and tips at the end of each chapter are a great way to get you practicing, thus making the book very 'hands on' as opposed to just theoretical like most books are. I read the book in a week and now I will go through it one more time to do all the practical exercises from each chapter and watch all the speeches she refers to in her book.
I am still not confident enough to stand up in front of a large audience to make a speech but I believe after completing all the tips and exercises I will feel a lot more confident to do so!
Thank you again to the writer for this brilliant book! I highly recommend it!
- Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 18 October 2020Speaking in public is hard. It can be made even harder when your gender is an additional factor into why you may be judged, not listened to or respected. Viv Groskop’s brilliant book How to Own the Room is a powerhouse of a book. It is empowering and give amazing information, advice and real life stories on how to build up your confidence and to be able to give amazing speeches.
I took a lot from this book. I work in a school and I don’t really have a problem with speaking to my students but I know I would feel very different if I was speaking to my peers. If I am ever asked to address people on my level or higher I know I will return to How to Own a Room to help me with the delivery of my speech.
Additionally, it is the stories of well known people and how they deal with making speeches that makes you feel a little bit better about your own nerves. How to Own a Room is a practical guide and an enjoyable read.
How to Own the Room – Women and the Art of Brilliant Speaking by Viv Groskop is available now.
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- AditrajdhviReviewed in India on 14 November 2024
4.0 out of 5 stars About the book
Quite good
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Pamela SReviewed in Brazil on 17 June 2021
3.0 out of 5 stars Muito genérico.
Acho a abordagem do livro muito superficial.
- Daniela RankovicReviewed in Spain on 21 December 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars You get more than you actually expected
I bumbed into the recommendation with this book and since it was perfectly in line with my intention to go back to public speaking, I thought I should give a try and I bought it. As I was reading there were more and more terms, I actually never thought before how beneficial they are. Happy high status is really something I found valuable, not just when we talk about the public speaking. Furthermore, I get inspired and remembered certain paragraphs of the book, every time I attended some event, even if I am not the one giving a speach. I also very much appreciate how humble and down to earth the author is, since she responds to the msg unknow people are sending her as if she knows them. The book helped me get inspired and more important how to found my own style when it comes to public speaking. You do not have to copy other big names, you just have to see who you are and implement what works best for you.
- Amazon-KundeReviewed in Germany on 28 January 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant Writing
It is fun to read an full of information and exercises. If nothing else it is great to know one is not alone with ones fear of public speaking.
Still, I think it helped me a lot.
(Not a native speaker)
- Leah JM DeanReviewed in the United States on 25 January 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read for Any Woman That Wants or Needs to Speak!
Laden with tips, tricks, and advice, How to Own the room is the female speaker's handbook that we have all been waiting for. Leveraging the stories of some of the most famous speakers in the world, Viv shares practical and inspirational tools, and insights to help women Own the Room when they speak. From how to organize your thoughts, to the ever-elusive "presence", to pace of speech, Viv covers important communications topics and so much more. I would highly recommend her book. If you are looking for great listening material her podcast by the same name is great as well. Thank you, Viv, for sharing your insights. So many women will be so much better for it!