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The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About Paperback – 7 January 2025

by Mel Robbins (Author), Sawyer Robbins (Author)
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What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words-Let Them-will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands-and this book will show you exactly how to do it.

In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins-New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset-teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters- YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.

Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things-at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals-and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.

Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.

Learn how to-
Stop wasting energy on things you can't control
Stop comparing yourself to other people
Break free from fear and self-doubt
Release the grip of people's expectations
Build the best friendships of your life
Create the love you deserve
Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment
. . . and so much more.

The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.

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Mel Robbins is the creator and host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the most successful podcasts in the world, and a #1 New York Times bestselling author. She has amassed 21 million followers online and is considered the most sought-after expert in life improvement, mindset, and behavior change. The Wall Street Journal calls her a "billion-view podcaster" and TIME magazine says she gives millions of listeners around the globe "a reason to believe in themselves."

Her books have been translated into 50 languages and include the #1 New York Times and Sunday Times bestselling The Let Them Theory, which Oprah Daily named as one of the best books of 2025. She is also the author of the multimillion-copy-selling The 5 Second Rule, The High 5 Habit, and seven #1 audiobook releases on Audible.

Robbins is a self-publishing maverick and entrepreneur who has been at the forefront of innovation and disruption in the publishing industry and sits on the board of Amplify Publishing. USA Today calls her "a force to be reckoned with." 143 Studios Inc., her female-led media company, produces provocative and award-winning content with unprecedented results- millions of books sold, billions of video views, and original courses and professional development education for clients like Starbucks, Ulta Beauty, JPMorgan Chase, LinkedIn, Spotify, Headspace, and Audible.

Notable accolades for Robbins include being a Forbes 50 Over 50 Honoree 2023; USA Today Top 5 Mindset & Performance Coaches in the World, 2023; and one of the fifty most influential influencers on The Hollywood Reporter's Creator A-List in 2024. The Mel Robbins Podcast has won some of the most prestigious awards given to podcasts, including Webby, Signal Awards, and more. It was also recognized as one of Apple Podcasts' Top Shared and Followed Shows of 2024 and 2023, and Spotify Top Global Shows of 2024.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Hay House (7 January 2025)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 336 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 140199413X
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1401994136
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 15.3 x 2.3 x 23.3 cm
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    Mel Robbins is the creator and host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the most successful podcasts in the world, and a #1 New York Times bestselling author. She has amassed 28 million followers online and is considered one of the most respected experts in mindset, life improvement, and behavior change. The Wall Street Journal calls her a “billion-view podcaster” and TIME Magazine says she gives millions of listeners around the globe “a reason to believe in themselves.”

    Her books have been translated into 50 languages and include the #1 New York Times, #1 Amazon, #1 Audible, and #1 Sunday Times bestselling The Let Them Theory, which is one of the most successful non-fiction book launches in history, with almost 4 million copies sold within four months of its release date. She is also the author of the multimillion-copy-selling The 5 Second Rule, The High 5 Habit, and seven #1 audiobook releases on Audible.

    USA Today calls Mel “a force to be reckoned with.” She is a global phenomenon in the publishing industry and podcasting. Her Boston-based media production company, 143 Studios, produces award-winning content, podcasts, events, audio series, online courses, journals, and books, along with professional development education for partners like Starbucks, Ulta Beauty, JP Morgan Chase, LinkedIn, Headspace, and Audible.

    The Mel Robbins Podcast has won some of the most prestigious awards given to podcasts, including Webby, Signal Awards, and more. It was also recognized as one of Apple Podcasts' Top Shared and Followed Shows of 2024 and 2023 and Spotify Top Global Shows of 2024. Notable accolades for Robbins include being a Forbes 50 Over 50 Honoree, USA Today Top 5 Mindset & Performance Coaches in the World, and one of the fifty most influential influencers on The Hollywood Reporter’s Creator A-List in 2024.

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    5.0 out of 5 stars do yourself a favour and buy this book!! 🥰
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    amazing book, amazing author- let them
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    Great in theory, have started to do some of it in practice. Lots of practical ideas than can easily be put into practice.
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    Such an easy book to read. In every day language. This book has helped me enormously when I was feeling very very low. I use the authors suggestions every day.
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    5.0 out of 5 stars Something for everyone
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    I was so taken with the book that I bought this almost immediately after so I could listen on those occasions where a book wasn’t practical. I listen when I’m working around the home or when crafting, or walking.
    I love this book so much I’ve been recommending it to everyone!
    This book has something for everyone.
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  • Mazzy
    3.0 out of 5 stars I wanted to love this book
    Reviewed in Australia on 23 March 2025
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    I found this book informative and thought provoking up until I got to Chapter 14. From then on it deals with motivating other people to change and basically how to talk them into doing what you think is best for them. Hardly the point of Let Them I would have thought? I doubt I’ll bother to finish this book.
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  • Donna
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great
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    Such great practical advice with some nice examples to commit the practices to memory
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  • HazelG
    5.0 out of 5 stars It's a must read for change
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    If you're fed up with the direction your life and relationships are taking, look into The Let Them Theory which will help you change things. It's a way of life that you can adapt for whatever issues you are facing. I was hooked from the first chapter. With such an easy to remember tag line and action plan, I use the concepts every day. Read the Let Them Theory and change your life.
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  • Neha Purohit
    5.0 out of 5 stars Frustrated by others' actions? The key to peace and success lies in three words—LET THEM
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    Frustrated by others' actions? The key to peace and success lies in three words—LET THEM.

    The Let Them theory helps you release control, attract the right people, and grow effortlessly. It’s about allowing others to make their choices without resistance from you. As Mel Robbins puts it in her book, The Let Them Theory, “When you allow people the freedom to do what they want, you gain the freedom to focus on what truly matters to you.”

    Why "Let Them" Works
    ✔ Let them underestimate you – Your results will prove them wrong. ✔ Let them leave – The right people will stay. ✔ Let them judge – Their perception isn’t your reality. ✔ Let them ignore you – Focus on those who see your value. ✔ Let them talk – Your growth isn’t tied to their opinions. ✔ Let them doubt you – Success is the best response.

    Business & Leadership Perspective
    Entrepreneurs: Not everyone will see your vision. Let them go.
    Leaders: Resistance happens. Let them. Lead with confidence.

    Mel Robbins reinforces this mindset by stating, “Letting them be means letting yourself be free.” When you stop trying to change or convince others, you create space for peace, clarity, and new opportunities.

    Letting go to isn’t indifference—it’s freedom. When you stop chasing, you start attracting.
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    5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic informative read
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    Fantastic well written comprehensive book. Beautiful layout and so informative. Every women struggling with understanding the changes in their bodies should read this. Great read for the husbands too .. will really give them an insight 😊
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  • Clvtch
    5.0 out of 5 stars Livre majeur !
    Reviewed in France on 21 April 2025
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    J'ai l'habitude de Mel Robbins et c'est encore un sans faute. Beaucoup de redite mais ça fait du bien.
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